I spend a lot of time talking about becoming aware of our thoughts. Knowing what we are thinking and managing our thoughts to create the results we want.
I've also explained how our thoughts create our feelings and how feelings drive everything. Everything we do or don't do comes from how we are fe...
We all have them. Some struggle more than others, but we all have them.
If you do regular thought-work, they likely affect you less. Not none, but less. When you're doing regular thought-work, you're able to recognize irrational thoughts faster and address them right away.
When you're not doing ...
In honor of St. Patrick's Day, I thought I'd tie todays topic to the holiday.
The first thing I thought of was the saying "Luck of the Irish". I researched where this came from and was surprised to find out it's more an American-Irish saying from the 19th Century Gold and Silver Rush than it is fr...
How AWARE are you?
I've talked many times about the importance of awareness. Awareness is how we discover what is going on inside of us. It's how we find our thoughts. It's how we begin the path to change.
I recently heard a twist on this. Check out the details on this weeks' video!
Could it be this simple? Simple, yes. Easy, no.
There is just one habit that you can implement today, that will create anything that you want in your life.
Do you set regular goals? Do you have a resolution for 2026?
For anything you want to accomplish or achieve, you first set the goal or int...
Sometimes it can feel like our life situation is just a crappy hand we are dealt. Here's a couple of tips that can help shift this perspective.
First of all, we want to make sure the "hand" we're dealing with is actually something that is out of our control. We can find ourselves thinking we are s...
Do you set goals the first of the year? Or set a New Year's Resolution?
I never have set what I called a New Year's Resolution, but I have always had new things I've wanted to put into place in the New Year. I have always felt like it's a time to reset, a time to start new. Especially after the las...
There's no "right" or "wrong" way to grieve. Yet many of us question whether we're doing it wrong.
What creates doubt for you? Other people's expectations? Timeline pressure? Intensity? Judgement or comparison?
These are all measures against something external. But grief is internal and unique t...
We can slowly accumulate mind clutter without realizing it. Sometimes we hit a wall of realization, but you can process the clutter before you hit the wall.
This time of year it can seem like there is more mental clutter.
Here's a few simple steps to clear all the clutter and a process to ma...
We often think of the Holiday as a time for a break. After all the planning, organizing, and preparations, we are ready for a much needed break. But, do you actually give yourself a break? Or do you create chaos in your mind, when your physical body slows down? Do you allow yourself to really rest a...
I ran across an article that was very eye-opening. It presented scenarios of different places we might derive value, or determine our value. All from outside of us, from associations. It was a different way of looking at this and I wanted to share it.
Let me know if any of this resonates or if thi...
Motivation
Where does motivation come from?
It's one of those concepts that we feel is something outside of us. Something where we sit around and wait for it to show up.
So, I went to the googles and found the definition: an internal/external force that drives a person's desire, behavior, and pe...
