Tuesday Talks with Twila

The Decisions You Don’t Make Are Still Decisions decisions existing extraordinary life stuck Sep 29, 2026

How often do you tell yourself, “I’ll decide later”?

Maybe you’re still thinking about it. Maybe you need more information. Maybe you just want to see how things play out.

Sometimes that’s a perfectly reasonable approach. But sometimes, “I’ll decide later” is actually a way of avoiding the decisio...

Is "I'm fine" actually fine? comfortable content desire extraordinary fine fulfilled want Sep 22, 2026

How many times have you answered the question, “How are you?” with “I’m fine”?

It’s almost automatic.

I’m fine.
Everything’s fine.
Life is good.

And maybe it is.

Nothing is necessarily wrong. You have a lot to be grateful for. You’ve built a good life, raised your family, created a career, maintai...