What is keeping you from living your most amazing life ever? amazing belief emotions experience feeling life thoughts Jul 14, 2026

This topic has me truly perplexed. I know for me the answer is different on different days. That tells me that it's different for you too. 

I am genuinely asking this question, so I invite you to watch this week's video and email and let me know.

I want to solve this for everyone. 

We can all be ...

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The Gap between what you know and what you do. actions emotions feeling regret regrets results shift significant thoughts Jul 07, 2026

When I heard this, I immediately thought of you! 

When I'm teaching tools or concepts, and you're nodding along. When you ask a question and I give you an answer. When you need help and I provide a solution. 

And then what? You now have the knowledge, have the information. 

You're in the Gap. Do ...

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Who's to blame? blame emotions experience feeling thoughts May 19, 2026

We can often find ourselves blaming someone or something outside of ourselves for how we are feeling. 

If you've been around here very long, you already know that our feelings come from our thoughts. 

So, how does this work?

When we are blaming someone or something for how we feel, we are missing...

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I don't have enough time for coaching coaching emotions feelings self-coaching thought-work thoughts time Apr 07, 2026

Do you feel like you don't have enough time for coaching? 

This is the number one reason I hear from my community.

Today I want to talk about how to self coach in the tiny pockets of time that you are already spending "just thinking". Like when you're brushing your teeth, in the shower, or driving...

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Do you want to FEEL better? emotions feel feelings thought-work thoughts Mar 31, 2026

I spend a lot of time talking about becoming aware of our thoughts. Knowing what we are thinking and managing our thoughts to create the results we want.

I've also explained how our thoughts create our feelings and how feelings drive everything. Everything we do or don't do comes from how we are fe...

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Navigating Grief During the Holidays buffering emotions grief grieve holiday sadness Dec 24, 2025

There's no "right" or "wrong" way to grieve. Yet many of us question whether we're doing it wrong. 

What creates doubt for you? Other people's expectations? Timeline pressure? Intensity? Judgement or comparison? 

These are all measures against something external. But grief is internal and unique t...

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